Happy Valentine’s Day! Do you have a Valentine or are you on the hunt for one? The way you dress for your Valentine’s date (or any date for that matter) sends a message about what you want and how you want the date to end (if your partner plays their cards right).
Are you going for a sweet look for a date you want to end with a warm kiss? Are you going for a sexy look that tempts you date all evening and leaves the ending a mystery? Are going for the trampy vampy look where your date knows you plan to give it all away at the end of the evening?
Whether you are a woman or a man, creating any of these looks is as easy as 1…2…3…4! It’s all about dressing from the sexy buffet. What’s on the sexy buffet?
- Body conscious clothing (Think skin-tight – tight enough to reveal the shape of your body underneath).
- Any clothing that reveals skin – on the upper arms or shoulders, thighs (any leg area above your knee), or cleavage/décolleté/pecks.
- Open high-heel shoes (sandals or open heel or toe). The shoe gets sexier as the top gets strappier, the heel gets higher, and/or the platform sole gets thicker.
- Loose hairstyles/morning-after great sex bed head hair.
- Stubbly facial hair (you probably already know that this is item is for men only!).
If you want a sweet look, choose 1 or 2 items from the Sexy Buffet. Here are some sweet examples:
- Wear your hair down in a loose, sexy style with skinny or tight jeans. Then add a loose long-sleeve tunic top or button-down shirt with a higher neckline and ballet flats/closed shoes.
- Wear a mini-dress and high-heel shoes. Then put your hair in a pony tail and make sure the dress has a high neck and long sleeves.
- For men, wear shorts and open shoes, then wear your hair in a boyish style with a loose, long-sleeve shirt with a high neck (turtle neck, crew neck, or a button-down buttoned up all the way)
- Wear a sleeveless dress with your hair down. Then make sure the dress in loose with jewel or boat neckline and wear flat shoes.
- For men, wear a close-fitting long-sleeve shirt with an open neck (or unbuttoned to show a little peck) with a boyish hairstyle, trousers and closed shoes/sneakers.
- Wear a sleeveless top that reveals some cleavage. Make sure the top is loose and wear your hair up, with trousers or a knee-length loose skirt and closed shoes with a low heel.
If you want a sexy look, choose 2 or 3 items from the Sexy Buffet. Sexy is about teasing while leaving plenty to your date’s imagination. Add one more sexy element to the sweet examples from above to turn they into sexy looks:
- Wear your hair down in a loose, sexy style, with skinny or tight jeans and open/high-heel shoes. Keep the top loose and long-sleeved with a higher neckline.
- Wear a mini-dress and high-heel shoes with your hair down. Keep the dress loose with high neck and long sleeves.
- For men, wear shorts and open shoes, with your hair in loose, sexy style. Keep the loose, long-sleeve shirt with a high neck (turtle neck, crew neck, or a button-down buttoned up all the way)
- Wear a sleeveless dress with your hair down and strappy shoes. Keep the dress loose with jewel or boat neckline.
- For men, wear a close-fitting long-sleeve shirt with an open neck (or unbuttoned to show a little peck) with a sexy loose hairstyle, trousers and closed shoes/sneakers.
- Wear a sleeveless top that reveals some cleavage and open shoes. Make sure the top is loose and wear your hair up, with trousers or a knee-length loose skirt.
If you’re going for tramy-vampy, select 4+ sexy elements… or just choose all your clothes from the Sexy Buffet. Here’s how you take the sexy outfits above over the top!
- Wear your hair down in a loose, sexy style, with skinny or tight jeans and open/high-heel shoes. Then choose a tight sleeveless top with a low neckline.
- Wear a mini-dress and high-heel shoes with your hair down. Go for it and make the dress tight with a revealing neckline. Long-sleeves, short-sleeves, no sleeves…it doesn’t matter…it’s all coming off in a minute anyway!
- For men, wear shorts and open shoes, with your hair in loose, sexy style. Make the shirt tight and show some skin.
- Wear a sleeveless dress with your hair down and strappy shoes. Then tighten up the dress and lower the neckline and show off “The Girls!”
- For men, wear a close-fitting long-sleeve shirt with an open neck (or unbuttoned to show a little peck) with a sexy loose hairstyle. Tighten up the pants or shorts and open up the shoes.
- Wear a sleeveless top that reveals some cleavage and open shoes. Tighten up the top and pants, shorten the skirt and loosen up your hair.
